Penn-Trafford Mourns Sudden Death of Beloved Coach T.J. Detruf at 41
PENN‑TRAFFORD / HEMPFIELD, PA — The Penn‑Trafford community is mourning the unexpected and heartbreaking loss of T.J. Detruf, 41, who passed away suddenly at his home in Hempfield Township on Saturday, July 26, 2025. As a dedicated assistant freshman football coach for the Penn‑Trafford Warriors over the past three seasons, T.J. left an indelible mark on students, athletes, and colleagues alike
🏈 A Coach Who Inspired
A figure of integrity and passion, T.J. was known for his intelligence, charisma, and unwavering commitment to guiding young athletes. According to Penn‑Trafford head coach John Ruane, “He was charismatic, dedicated, intelligent and a great teacher. He influenced our kids, coached them the right way, treated them the right way and got them varsity‑ready… This was a man you would want around your sons” .
Before his tenure at Penn‑Trafford, T.J. coached at Jeannette High School—where he had once played quarterback himself—and later supported his son, Dom Detruf, as quarterback at Hempfield Area High School .
❤️ A Life Beyond the Field
T.J. was not just a coach; he was a devoted husband to Jen and a loving father to Dom. His life was deeply rooted in family and community. The Penn‑Trafford Football Boosters named him “an integral part of our football family” and noted that his contributions “left an indelible mark on all of us”
Off the gridiron, T.J.’s warmth, mentorship, and sense of humor created a ripple effect across lives—he was a confidant, motivator, and friend to many.
💔 Community Grief & Tribute
The news of his departure has brought profound grief throughout Westmoreland County. Messages of sorrow and remembrance have poured in from students, alumni, and families impacted by his dedication and character .
The Penn‑Trafford Athletic Department issued heartfelt reflections: “T.J. was a dedicated father, husband and coach who inspired countless student athletes… Our thoughts and prayers are with Coach T.J.’s family and loved ones during this incredibly difficult time”
🤝 Supporting the Detruf Family
In honor of T.J.’s legacy, the Penn‑Trafford Football Boosters are collecting donations to aid his family during this painful period. According to officials, “We want to give every dime to the Detruf family for anything they need it for” .
📌 Summary of Key Details
| Detail | Information |
|---|---|
| Name | T.J. Detruf, age 41 |
| Role | Assistant freshman football coach, Penn‑Trafford |
| Date of Passing | Saturday, July 26, 2025 |
| Location | Hempfield Township, PA |
| Previous Role | Coach and former quarterback at Jeannette HS |
| Survived by | Wife Jen and son Dom (quarterback at Hempfield) |
| Community Response | Outpouring of grief, booster fund established |
🌟 A Legacy of Impact
Though his life was cut tragically short, T.J. Detruf leaves behind a legacy defined by integrity, purpose, and leadership. He taught more than football—he taught courage, discipline, teamwork, and compassion. His presence shaped young lives, strengthened community bonds, and reminded us all of the power of mentorship.
Rest in peace, Coach T.J. Detruf. Your influence on and off the field will be felt for generations. You will be deeply missed—and always remembered.