Shahnaz Pestonji Obituary: Beloved Toronto Grandmother Fatally Stabbed in Unprovoked North York Attack
Shahnaz Pestonji, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and former nurse, passed away tragically on July 17, 2025, in a senseless stabbing in a commercial parking lot at Parkway Forest Drive and Sheppard Avenue East in North York. What was meant to be a routine Thursday to do errands ended in heartbreak
Shahnaz dedicated over two decades of her life to nursing at Sunnybrook Hospital, impacting countless patients with her gentle care and professionalism Her family says she brought that same warmth and empathy to her daily life: always finding joy amid challenges, being the emotional anchor for her daughters, and bringing laughter into every situation .
Married to her husband, Soli, for 47 years, the couple shared a deeply loving and supportive partnership. One Thursday, when Shahnaz did not return home at her usual time, worry turned to grief when police knock brought the devastating news. “It was the worst time of my life,” Soli said
She is survived by her husband; her daughters, Dina and Yasmin; and a two-year-old granddaughter. Yasmin, who is expecting her second child, expressed that Shahnaz will never meet her new grandchild—a loss the family feels keenly
The Incident
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Date & Time: July 17, 2025, at approximately 9:37 a.m.
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Location: A commercial plaza parking lot at Parkway Forest Drive and Sheppard Ave East, North York—while Shahnaz was loading groceries
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Details: The attack was described as unprovoked. The suspect—a lone male wearing a balaclava—fled the scene before police arrival. Shahnaz was stabbed, rushed to hospital by emergency run, and later succumbed to her injuries
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Suspect Description: A Black male, approximately 5′7″–5′10″, dressed in dark clothing and a balaclava. Toronto Police have released surveillance images and are seeking public assistance
A Family’s Remembrance
Shahnaz’s daughters remember her as their “rock”—a beacon of positivity even during hard times. Dina said:
“She always found the joy in everything… even in the hard times, she was our rock, making sure everyone was OK around her, that we were all taken care of.”
Yasmin, expecting her second child, lovingly noted:
“My mom is the second person who’s been able to feel the baby kick and that will never be taken away from us.”
Her daughters have expressed hope that the perpetrator gets help, though they choose to honor their mother by focusing on the joy and love she gave—not the violence she tragically endured .
Memorial & Legacy
Shahnaz leaves behind a legacy of compassion through her nursing career and her loving presence at home. Her family’s wish is that she be remembered for her light, kindness, and enduring spirit.
The family is making plans for a private memorial service. In lieu of condolences, they ask that acts of kindness—especially in healthcare or community support—may be dedicated in her honour.
Call for Public Assistance
Toronto Police continue to seek information on the suspect. Residents who were in the area at that time or who spot someone matching the description are urged to call 9‑1‑1 immediately. Tips can also be submitted to Crime Stoppers anonymously at 416‑222‑TIPS or online
In Summary
Shahnaz Pestonji was a cherished matriarch whose life was defined by care, joy, and unwavering love for her family and community. Her sudden, unprovoked passing has left a profound void. As her loved ones mourn, they remember the warmth she spread and encourage the public to support efforts to bring closure to her senseless loss.